Things That We Must Stay Away From!
"When wealth is lost, nothing is lost; when health is lost, something is lost; when character is lost, all is lost." — Billy Graham
1-Thou shalt not go to lunch alone with the opposite sex
2-Thou shalt not have the opposite sex pick you up or drive you places when it is just the two of you.
3- Thou shalt not kiss any attendee of the opposite sex or show affection that could be questioned.
4-Thou shalt not visit the opposite sex alone at home.
5-Thou shalt not counsel the opposite sex alone at the office, and thou shalt not counsel the opposite sex more than once without that person's mate. Refer them and protect your marriage!
6-Thou shalt not discuss detailed sexual problems with the opposite sex in counseling or other. Refer them protect your marriage!
7-Thou shalt not discuss your marriage problems with an attendee of the opposite sex.
8-Thou shalt be careful in answering e-mails, instant messages, chat rooms, cards, or letters from the opposite sex.
9-Thou shalt make your co-worker your protective ally. Accountability.
10-Thou shalt pray for the integrity of other staff members.
Just a personal note from someone who has broken everyone of these in the past.......stay away from anything of these.....all it takes is "1" rumor in order for evil folks/spirits to go to work......Do not allow the a foothold! Satan WILL use anything and anyone to blow your Marriage and/or Ministry out of the water.
If we can Pray for you and this is TOTALLY CONFIDENTIALLY, drop us a note through the contact page. We love you and God will Bless you for protecting your Marriage and the Ministry HE has called you to.
Bobby & Kay
(This list of things, well I saw it, read it, agreed with it......but I found it and it is from Rick Warren and Saddleback Church.)
